thanks for the quick reply and script! However, it doesn't quite get me towards my goal.

What I REALLY need is a way to log the proc and mem of the applications. This way, when in the middle of the night, the machine starts bogging down, I can then go back and see which process was the offender. Ganglia does a great job of graphing proc/mem (and many other metrics) by the way, I highly reccomend playing around with it if you have several machines you monitor.
So, I kind of found a solution, top has a batch modes, running top -b will scroll info to the console, it will repeat nonstop unless you give it a -n option. so for instance if I want to run it once, I run top -b -n1 and get somthing like this:
top - 11:24:04 up 7 days, 22:02, 9 users, load average: 0.09, 0.05, 0.01
Tasks: 111 total, 1 running, 110 sleeping, 0 stopped, 0 zombie
Cpu(s): 1.1% us, 0.5% sy, 0.0% ni, 96.4% id, 1.9% wa, 0.0% hi, 0.0% si
Mem: 1555028k total, 1439284k used, 115744k free, 651764k buffers
Swap: 0k total, 0k used, 0k free, 95476k cached
PID USER PR NI VIRT RES SHR S %CPU %MEM TIME+ COMMAND
4284 root 14 -1 305m 221m 7612 S 11.8 14.6 128:54.26 X
4388 root 15 0 52484 27m 8772 S 2.0 1.8 2:31.61 gnome-terminal
5289 root 15 0 3660 860 664 R 2.0 0.1 0:00.01 top
1 root 16 0 2788 628 540 S 0.0 0.0 0:01.11 init
So unless I can get somthing better, for now I'll just cron it up every five minutes, output it to a file and see if I can catch it that way. If I get the time, I'll see if I can't bang out a script to just grab the top 5 and only the important stuff and log it.
again, thanks!